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Everybodyhasbluedays.Thesearemiserabledayswhenyoufeellousy,grumpy,loterlyexhausted.Dayswhenyoufeelsmallandinsignifieverythioutofreach.You'trisetotheo.Justgettingstartedseemsimpossible.Onbluedaysyoueparanoidthateveryoogetyou.(Thisisnotalwayssuchabadthiratedandanxious,whiduail-bitiestoatriple-ud-gfrenzyinablinkofaneye!
Onbluedaysyoufeellikeyinanoofsadness.You'reabouttoburstiaandyoudon'tevenknowwhy.Ultimately,youfeellikeyouarewahroughlifewithoutpurpose.You'renotsurehowmugeryougonandyoufeellikeshouting,“Willsomeome!”
Itdoesonablueday.Youmightjustnotfeelingyourbest,fndsomenewwrio,etahugepimpleonyournose.Youcetyourdate’snameorhaveanembarrassingphotographpublished.Youmightgetdumped,divorakefoolofyourselfinpublic,beafflictedwithademeaninghaveaplainoldbad-hairday.Maybeai.You’reundermajorpressuretofllsomeoneelse’sshoes,yourbossispiyou,andeveryoheoffceisdrivingyouighthaveasplittingheadache,oraslippeddisk,badbreath,atoothaicgas,drylips,rowntoenail.Whateverthereason,you’recedthatsomeoheredoesn’tlikeyou.Ohwhattodo,whattodo?
Well,ifyou'relikemostpeople,you'llhidebehindaflimsybeliefthateverythingwillsortitselfout.Thenyouwillspeofyourlifelookingoveryourshftallain.Allthewhilebeingdicalorapathetiivelingvitilyougetsodepressedthatyouliedowheearthtoswallowyouupor,evenworse,beeaddictedtoBillyJoelsongs.Thisiscrazy,becauseyou'reonlyyoungondyou'reswhatfantastigsareiaroundtheer?
&heworldisfullofamazihingsyou'teveherearedelicious,happysniffsandscrumptioussnackstoshare.Hey,youmightendupfabulouslyribeeahugesuperstar(oneday).Soundsgood,doesn'tit?Butwait,there'smore!
Therearehandstands,aoplayandyogaandkaraokeandwild,iandang.Butbestofall,there'sromance.Whisloares,whisperihings,cuddles,smoooodevenmoresmooches,afriskylovebiteortwo,andthehinggoes.Sohowdthatblissful“justslidingintoahotbubblebath”
ki'seasy.
First,stopslinkingawayfromallthosenaggi'stimetofacethemusiowjustrelax.Takesomedeepbreaths(inthroughthethroughthemouth).Trytomeditateifyoforawalktoclearyourhead.Acceptthefactthatyou'llhavetoletgoofsomeemotionalbaggage.Tryseeingthingsfromadiffereive.Maybeyou'reactuallytheo.Ifthat'sthecase,bebigenoughtosayyou'resorry(itisetodothis).Ifsomeoneelseisdoihing,standupandsay,“That’snhtandIwon’tstandforit!”
It’sOKtobeforceful.(It’sreallyokaytobloberries.)Beproudofwhoyouare,butdoheabilitytolaughatyourself.(Thisisaloteasierwhenyouassociatewithpositivepeople.)Liveeverydayasgiftwereyourlast,beedayitwillbe.Doobiteoffmorethanyouchew.Takebigrisks.Neverhangback.Getoforit.Afterall,isn’tthatwhatlifeisallabout?
Ithinksotoo.
人人都有烦恼的日子。
在这样的日子里,我们满怀仇怨、脾气暴躁、寂寞难耐、精神委靡,也会自惭形秽、自怨自艾,甚至乱作一团。
于是,我们就很难重振旗鼓,开始新生活。
郁闷的日子里,我们可能变得偏执,认为自己成了所有人的攻击对象(事实上,情况一般不是这样);我们会感到异常失望或万分焦虑,甚至会神经质地咬指甲,疯狂地吞下三大块巧克力蛋糕!
痛苦的日子里,我们沉浸于悲伤的海洋,随时都会不知缘由地泪流满面。
最终,我们就会觉得活着毫无意义,不知道还能坚持多久,有时就想大吼:“来,给我一枪吧!”
其实就那么一点小事,足足可以让我们郁闷一天。
也许,我们忽略了自身的优点,倒是发现额头平添了几条皱纹,体重增加了几斤,或鼻子上多长了粉刺;也许,约会对象的名字也忘了,那张滑稽的照片也登出来了;也许,被人抛弃,离婚,被老板解雇,当众出丑,被难听的绰号折磨得身心憔悴,或是因那天的发型糟糕透顶;也许,因不堪工作之苦,成为别人的笑柄;也许,身兼重任,老板却百般刁难,同事苦苦相讥;也许,我们头痛欲裂,口臭,牙疼,吹牛皮,唇干舌燥,指甲长到肉里。
不论什么原因,我们都认为,有人厌恶着我们。
哦,怎么办呢,怎么办?
也许,像大多数人一样,我们会认为事情自有解决之道。
结果呢,后半辈子我们都在回望昨日,期待着往事重演。
最后呢,我们变得狂暴,愤世嫉俗,令人同情。
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